My ex girlfriend is trying to co-parenting with me

One mother has exploded after his new girlfriend’s attempts to grab their co-parent agreement.

She shares an eight-year-old son and a six-year-old girl with her ex-partner, and they have split for four years.

During that time, she says his parents’ efforts have been disappointing, to say at least.

“A group conversation”

“He has been ardent, sporadic and unpleasant all the time and there is a line of girlfriends he introduced to one of my children,” the mother explains in a group needed for advice.

At one point, he even went five months without seeing.

“He claimed he had a mental breakdown and sent me messages apologizing, seeking to see the children. I agreed but set the borders in the country,” she said.

Now, he has a new girlfriend.

“They are together for about six months, so I told him he could start having children overnight once every two weeks.”

But not without some precautions.

“For all the communication, I essentially put him in a group conversation with my partner, his partner and his mother,” she said.

“He has a story of being orally abusive and simply stretched all the time for arrangements and interactions.”

At first, things were going well, and the mother even admitted that the young girlfriend looked like a beautiful person.

But now, a new issue has come to the surface, causing the mother to seek support from the group online.

“Recently when making plans, he will not communicate at all. She will send only any kind of messages or arrangements and is super passive-aggressive and sweet sweet.”

The original agreement was that all communication would occur in the group conversation, mainly among parents. But now, the girlfriend has taken over.

“You are angry at my core,” the mother admitted.

“Communicate directly with it”

Commentators were quick to offer their thoughts.

“Ohhh god, what made you on earth think it was a good idea to have you, your partner, your ex and his new partner of a few months in a group conversation? Communicate with direct Link to children from now on, ”wrote one commenter.

“What if you keep all communication via email? In that way you will always have a record of what has been said, ”another suggested.

A third added: “There are dedicated applications that separated parents can use for messages. Look at them. ”

Then the mother made another shocking discovery.

“I discovered that they have lived together for three months. She essentially moved immediately and that is why she is sending me messages about caring for my children,” she said.

For many commentators, dishonesty was a big red flag that made the situation much more serious.

“The fact that they have lied already speaks volumes,” one person concluded.